The oil sizzled on the pan as my friend Janell made naan and garam masala chicken. Her little ones (Hazel is 4 and Levi is 1) raced back and forth through the kitchen. I held Lucy while she leaned around me to watch the kids run around. She squealed in delight. Janell and I tried to carry on a conversation. “Do you use essential oils? How do you use them?” “Did you read that article on Facebook?” “What did you think about this week’s sermon?” About halfway through each conver